Rick wrote earlier that he would let me talk a little about my part in our ministry here. I have to admit, I don’t really know what to write. Mostly, because what I do here isn’t too different from what I did in Kansas… only a little more international.
I am still in the process of getting to know the kids at Alliance Academy. There is still the stigma of being the ‘counselor/therapist/shrink’, where many seem to think that I am analyzing everyone I meet (if they only knew how easily my brain disconnects from that when I am not in session!).
Like any school, there are kids here who are/have been in crisis. Some of them come from healthy and supportive homes. Some of them come from struggling homes. Some of them come from abusive homes (which is tough, as there are very few laws here to protect children from abuse). Many of the issues here are the same as in any other school (anxiety, depression, overwhelmed, cutting, social issues w/ peers, bullying, etc.). Not all of the children, or their families, are Christian and not all of them have Biblical values. Even so, I haven’t met anyone yet that I don’t like. There is a glimmer of The Divine in each of them.
I am very thankful for the Peer Helpers group, where I am able to be a non-therapeutic leader in a group of teens. Rick seems to be coming into his own in this group, also. Last week he hammed it up a little more, and no one seemed to object…
Those of you who have sat in youth group w/ him know what that is like! The group reminds me a little of Oak Hills youth group, which is nice and nostalgic at the same time.
Another part of what I do is ministering to the teachers. The teachers here all seem to be pretty experienced and capable, but a little encouragement goes a long way. Since the school has started taking in more national students, not all of them missionary kids and not all of them from Christian homes, the teachers are facing issues that were less common at Alliance Academy before (IE. single-parent homes, history of abuse, cultural issues, language issues, etc.). Several teachers have approached the counseling department to ask advice on how to best help the kids as they deal w/ these issues.
As Rick has stated before, I think that a large part of ministry is really just ‘doing what you’ve always done, wherever you are’. Our daily interaction w/ the guard/doorman at our apartment, our monthly interaction w/ our landlady, our chance encounters w/ our neighbors (even the little boy next door who rings our doorbell constantly!), and even the people in the supermarket who cut in front of us in line…
Thank you all for your prayers. The last month has been tough. Finances have been tight, as Rick’s primary client is no longer going to give him their business. We are desperately praying that God will provide for us here. The holidays are quickly approaching, and we will not be w/ family for the first time in many years. There are many blessings and many challenges ahead.